Everything You Need to Know About Engagement Party Gifts Do you even have to bring a gift? Close Credit: Kylee Yee When you are invited to a bridal shower or wedding, it's customary to bring the couple a thoughtful gift. However, do the same rules apply to engagement parties? An engagement party is a bit of a gray area when it comes to gifting expectations. We have the answers to the question of whether or not to bring a gift to an engagement party and what to choose. The Etiquette of Engagement Parties Is an Engagement Gift Required? An engagement party gift is optional. Close friends or family members typically offer the couple engagement gifts. However, for everyone else, it's not expected or necessary. What's a Good Engagement Party Gift? Gift cards, a check, or cash always make for a much-appreciated present. If you want a gift that underscores the celebratory aspect of getting engaged, pick out two or four champagne flutes. Or bring a bottle of Champagne or prosecco. If the couple has already signed up for a wedding gift registry, look at their lists for ideas. If you choose to bring a gift, think about a simple, practical, yet unique engagement gift that helps the couple plan their wedding. Consider a wedding journal or decorative box to hold mementos they collect along the way. How Much Should the Gift Cost? As with wedding gifts, there's no set amount. Spend what you can afford while keeping in mind that this isn't the wedding, so what you spend should reflect that. Do I Bring the Gift to the Party? You can hand an engagement gift over to the couple at the party, or you can send it to them before or after the party. If you bring the gift to the party, don't expect them to open it during the festivities. Can I Just Bring a Card? If you decide to forgo the engagement gift, then bringing a card is always a good idea. A card with genuine handwritten sentiments is a gift in itself. Explore more: Weddings Wedding Showers & Parties Engagement Party