8 Antique Shopping Etiquette Rules You Don't Want to Break

Don’t Mishandle Fragile Items

Glassware, pottery, lighting, textiles, and garments may be fragile and can be easily damaged. “Let common sense prevail, and always ask before handling extra-delicate items,” says Leslie Boone of Pippa’s Bin.

If you’re walking through a store and start collecting dishware, glasses, or other breakable items, don’t pile pieces haphazardly into a basket or try to awkwardly hold everything in your arms. If you know you would like to purchase an item, the staff may let you keep it safely behind the counter until you’re ready to check out.

Don't Hesitate to Ask for Help

If you’d like a closer look at a rug or a piece of art, don’t be hesitant to ask for assistance. “Sometimes items aren’t as secure on shop walls as they would be at home, so many store owners prefer to pull them down themselves,”  says Hayden Guest, owner of The Lounging Hound.

If you decide to purchase a breakable item, ask if newspaper or bubble wrap is available to wrap it. Many shops also have extra boxes to transport items safely from the store counter to your car. 

Don't Bring a Big Bag

Boone recommends leaving oversized tote bags and backpacks in the car or at home. “Heavy bags can easily knock over delicate items as well as tire out the shopper.”

Instead, bring only the essentials, and don’t forget to stay hydrated. “Most shops don’t sell or provide drinks or snacks, so make sure to drink lots of water between stops,” she adds.

Don't Ignore Store Policies

Every shop has its own rules, so take note of posted signs as you begin browsing. Be mindful of no food or drink policies, and be considerate of other shoppers. “In our little shop, children and pets are welcome, but not every shop has that policy,” says Boone. “It’s best to always check with the owner or staff first.”

Don't Be Too Shy to Ask Questions

"Most antique dealers love to talk about their treasures and where they were found," says Boone. Strike up a conversation and ask about the age, history, or provenance of items you’re interested in. If you’re searching for a particular style or type of item, come prepared with inspiration photos or Pinterest boards. "I love when people bring a wishlist and pictures of their home," says Guest. "It helps me get a feel for the space and vibe they’re trying to achieve."

Don’t Try to Find Everything Yourself

If a single owner curates a shop, chances are they know the layout better than anyone. Ask for guidance if you’re looking for something specific. In larger antique malls, staff may not know every item—but they can usually direct you to vendors who specialize in certain pieces, such as  vintage quilts,  glassware, or pottery.

It’s fine just to browse, but the more specific you are, the more helpful they can be. “Most shop owners have a warehouse or back-room stash, so tell us what you’re looking for even if you don’t see it right away,” advises Guest.

Don’t Feel as Though You Can't Negotiate—But Be Respectful

Boone notes that many shops allow for a little wiggle room on pricing, especially for high-end or larger pieces. Don’t be afraid to ask if a discount is available on items that are cracked or stained, but make sure to be reasonable and courteous. (Remember, you’re shopping at a small business and not a big-box store.)

If something is marked “final sale” or “firm,” respect the label. And if the antique store is one you visit regularly and you’ve noticed an item lingering on the shelves, it doesn’t hurt to ask politely about a discount.

Don't Be Impulsive With Your Purchases

It’s easy to get swept up in the thrill of the hunt, but take some time  to carefully inspect items before purchasing. “Sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us when we find what appears to be a treasure,” says Guest.

Check if repairs or modifications are needed, and confirm the store’s return or exchange policies. Most antique shops have a final-sale policy, so be sure before you commit.