How to Thrift Wedding Décor for a Unique (and Affordable) Celebration

lounge space with bold colored couches and black wicker chairs — Credit:
Sposto Photography

Planning a wedding can have a larger-than-intended impact on both the environment and your wallet. But there's a way to soften that blow, plus make your day more unique in the process—and it lies within your favorite thrift shop. Shopping at thrift stores for wedding décor can be a lot more sustainable on your budget and the planet. From cake stands to place settings and everything in between, there are so many suitable secondhand items, and we're here to reveal how to find them.

"For the wedding thrifter, the options are endless and long lead times work in your favor," shares Noelle Nicolai, a vintage collector and reseller. "With the average U.S. engagement being 15 months, you'll have more than enough time to source some winning items for your event,” she says.

Take advantage of the entire planning time for your wedding to go thrifting. It can be a fun way to bond as a couple, as an expanding family, or with your wedding party. (After all, who doesn’t love the thrill of a great find?)

Here’s how to thrift for all types of high-quality wedding décor.

Noelle Nicolai, expert thrifter, vintage collector, and professional reseller

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Stick to the Brief

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Corbin Gurkin

"Know what you're looking for before you go. Creating a mood board will help you stay focused on finding what you need in crowded shelves and aisles," says Nicolai.

"The siren call of the thrift store can be distracting. With a color palette and design direction, you'll know what you're looking for and how to sift through the endless shelves before you."

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Go Directly to the Source

"Event planners and florists frequently sell their inventories on Facebook Marketplace, estate sales, and other sites," says Nicolai. "I've seen massive lots of brass candlesticks, cut glass votives, and bud vases—all great items for a tablescape."

Since they're in the biz, these sellers often have bulk quantities of event-specific items they need to unload, often to make space for new pieces. You can also share with your network that you’re open to purchasing used wedding décor: Many couples may be happy to offload items after their big day so the purchases can be used again.

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The Bigger, the Better

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Gianny Campos Photography

Focusing on larger pieces may be the best way to spend your time and money thrifting for wedding décor. “Candlesticks and cutlery are wonderful touches, but large furniture pieces help set the space and create zones for your event,” says Nicolai. “Settees and side tables are easy finds when thrifting and together create a soft seating moment to share a drink.” Extra-large lawn games are another fun, thrift-able reception addition.

Thrift stores may also have buffets and sideboards to display framed photos, place cards, or favors. “Style bookcases and large shelves with family wedding photos, veils, or mementos from every generation,” Nicolai suggests. Better yet, you can reuse the vintage furniture from your wedding in your home after the event.

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Mix and Match

Though you may be lucky enough to snag stylish service pieces for 60 (like Nicolai herself did recently!), you likely won’t find enough matching table settings for all of your guests while thrifting. So get creative!

“Whether you're collecting china or chairs for your event, don't be afraid to mix styles, designs, and eras for a collected, layered feel,” Nicolai says. “It will also make your search easier.”

Mix and match glassware to stock a bar instead of renting vessels. This will add a playful, unique touch to cocktail hour photos, too.

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Time Your Search

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Annamae Photo

Plan ahead to align your thrifting with the resale calendar. “Being at the right place at the right time is a winning strategy in your wedding treasure hunt. New Year's decluttering and spring cleanings are a catalyst for many donations,” Nicolai says.

“Make the rounds at your local thrift stores when more people are cleaning house. Chat with an employee about what day of the week donation trucks come in or when their team processes drop-offs. Then, time your shopping trips accordingly.”

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Shop Online

"If your local thrift and second-hand stores don't have what you're looking for, try finding it online," Nicolai says. "I search Facebook Marketplace for shippable items in less expensive parts of the country, then ask if the seller is open to shipping and electronic payments."

According to Nicolai, "casting a wider net, or a strategically placed one, can mean more choice and more savings." She suggests looking into shipping sites like Uship and Lugg.com for larger items. "They can make Facebook Marketplace your playground," she says, noting that getting a quote is usually quick and easy.